The Three Type Of People

 

A Teacher shows three toys to a student and asks the student to find out the differences.

All the three toys seemed to be identical in their shape, size and material.

After keen observation, the student observes holes in the toys.

First toy has holes in the ears. 

Second toy has holes in ear and mouth.

Third toy has only one hole in one ear.

Then with the help of a needle, the student puts the needle in the ear hole of the first toy.

The needle comes out from the other ear.

In the second toy, when the needle was put in the ear, the needle came out of mouth.

And in the third toy, when the needle was put in, the needle did not come out.

1. First toy represents those people around you who give an impression that they are listening to all your things and care for you. But they just pretend to do so. After listening, as the needle comes out from the next ear, the things you said to them by counting on them are gone.

So be careful while you are speaking to this type of people around you, who does not care for you.

2. Second toy represents those people who listen to you, all your things and give an impression that they care for you. But as in the toy, the needle comes out from mouth. These people will use your things and the words you tell them against you by telling it to others and bringing out the confidential issues for their own purpose.

3. Third toy, the needle does not come out from it.

These kinds of people will keep the trust you have in them. They are the ones who you can count on. Always stay in a company of people who are loyal and trustworthy. People, who listen to what you tell them, are not always the ones you can count on when you need them the most.

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शुभ कर्मो का अक्षय फल !!

वैश्वीकरण के समय मे समाज मे श्रेष्ठता की जंग इस सीमा तक बढ़ चुकी है कि लोगो ने त्योहारों पर भी पेशे की छाप डालनी शुरू कर दी है अक्षय तृतीया का नाम आते ही स्वर्णकारो, किसानो,फाइनेंशियल कन्सलटेंट, रियल स्टेट आदि मे ज्यादा से ज्यादा कस्टमर एक्वायर करने का कम्पटीशन स्टार्ट हो जाता है । लेकिन आज बायर सेलर से आगे बढ़ तिथि के महत्व के साथ साथ नेक भावना के साथ किए गए शुभ कर्मों से प्राप्त अक्षय फलो की बात करते है।

जिनसे पवित्र कथाओ का निर्माण होता है। 

अक्षय का अर्थ होता है “जो कभी खत्म ना हो” और इसीलिए ऐसा कहा जाता है, कि अक्षय तृतीया वह तिथि है जिसमें सौभाग्य और शुभ फल का कभी क्षय नहीं होता है। इस दिन होने वाले कार्य मनुष्य के जीवन को कभी न खत्म होने वाले शुभ फल प्रदान करते हैं। इसलिए यह कहा जाता है, कि इस दिन मनुष्य जितने भी पुण्य कर्म तथा दान करता है उसे, उसका शुभ फल अधिक मात्रा में मिलता है और शुभ फल का प्रभाव कभी खत्म नहीं होता है वहीं इसके विपरीत जो व्यक्ति इस दिन कुकर्म करता है उसका परिणाम भी उसे कई गुना बढ़कर भुगतना पड़ता है। 

कथा- 

बहुत समय पहले की बात है कुशावती नामक नगरी में महोदय नाम का एक वैश्य रहता था। सौभाग्यवश महोदय वैश्य को एक पंडित से अक्षय तृतीया के व्रत करने की विधि के बारे में पता चला। 

महोदय ने भक्ति – भाव से विधि पूर्वक व्रत किया। व्रत के प्रताप से महोदय वैश्य कुशावती का महाप्रतापी शक्तिशाली राजा बन गया। उसका खजाना हमेशा स्वर्ण मुद्राओं , हीरे जवाहरातों से भरा रहता था। राजा महोदय अच्छे स्वभाव का तथा दानवीर था। वह उदार मन से खुले हाथ से दान करता था और असहाय व गरीबो की भरपूर सहायता  करता था। 

एक बार राजा का वैभव और सुख शांतिपूर्ण जीवन देख कर दूसरे राजाओं ने उसकी समृद्धि का कारण पूछा। राजा ने स्पष्ट रूप से अपने अक्षय तृतीया व्रत की कथा कह सुनाई और कहा कि सब कुछ अक्षय तृतीय व्रत की कृपा से हुआ है। 

राजा से सुनकर उन्होंने अपने राज्य में जाकर विधि विधान सहित अक्षय तृतीया का पूजन व व्रत किया तथा प्रजा को भी ऐसा ही करने को कहा। अक्षय तृतीया के पुण्य प्रताप से उनके सभी नगर वासी , धन धान्य से पूर्ण होकर वैभवशाली और सुखी हो गए। 

हे अक्षय तीज माता ! जैसे आपने उस वैश्य को वैभव और राज्य दिया वैसे ही अपने सब भक्तो को धन धान्य और सुख देना। सब पर अपनी कृपा बनाये रखना।

अक्षय तृतीया का पौराणिक इतिहास -

अक्षय तृतीया का पौराणिक इतिहास महाभारत काल में मिलता है। जब पाण्डवों को 13 वर्ष का वनवास हुआ था तो एक दुर्वासा ऋषि उनकी कुटिया में पधारे थे। तब द्रौपदी से जो भी बन पड़ा, जितना हुआ, उतना उनका श्रद्धा और प्रेमपूर्वक सत्कार किया, जिससे वे काफी प्रसन्न हुए। दुर्वासा ऋषि ने उस दिन द्रौपदी को एक अक्षय पात्र प्रदान किया। 

श्रीकृष्ण से सम्बंधित एक और कथा अक्षय तृतीया के सन्दर्भ में प्रचलित है| कथानुसार श्रीकृष्ण के बालपन के मित्र सुदामा इसी दिन श्रीकृष्ण के द्वार उनसे अपने परिवार के लिए आर्थिक सहायता मांगने गए था| भेंट के रूप में सुदामा के पास केवल एक मुट्ठीभर पोहा ही था| श्रीकृष्ण से मिलने के उपरान्त अपना भेंट उन्हें देने में सुदामा को संकोच हो रहा था किन्तु भगवान कृष्ण ने मुट्ठीभर पोहा सुदामा के हाथ से लिया और बड़े ही चाव से खाया| चूंकि सुदाम श्रीकृष्ण के अतिथि थे, श्रीकृष्ण ने उनका भव्य रूप से आदर-सत्कार किया| ऐसे सत्कार से सुदामा बहुत ही प्रसन्न हुए किन्तु आर्थिक सहायता के लिए श्रीकृष्ण ने कुछ भी कहना उन्होंने उचित नहीं समझा और वह बिना कुछ बोले अपने घर के लिए निकल पड़े| जब सुदामा अपने घर पहुंचें तो दंग रह गए| उनके टूटे-फूटे झोपड़े के स्थान पर एक भव्य महल था और उनकी गरीब पत्नी और बच्चें नए वस्त्राभूषण से सुसज्जित थे| सुदामा को यह समझते विलंब ना हुआ कि यह उनके मित्र और विष्णुःअवतार श्रीकृष्ण का ही आशीर्वाद है| यहीं कारण है कि अक्षय तृतीया को धन-संपत्ति की लाभ प्राप्ति से भी जोड़ा जाता है।

अतः आज के दिन धरती पर जो भी श्रीहरि विष्णु की विधि विधान से पूजा अर्चना करेगा। उनको चने का सत्तू, गुड़, मौसमी फल, वस्त्र, जल से भरा घड़ा तथा दक्षिणा के साथ श्री हरी विष्णु के निमित्त दान करेगा, उसके घर का भण्डार सदैव भरा रहेगा। उसके धन-धान्य का क्षय नहीं होगा, उसमें अक्षय वृद्धि होगी।

ध्यान दीजिए दान और सेवा का महत्व आवश्यक है। कुछ अलग, स्पेशल, ऐसा करे जिससे मन को शांति मिले। मन की शांति अक्षय रह सके। क्योकि फल तो हमे हमारे कर्मो का ही मिलता है बाकी शॉपिंग से संतुष्टि तो सिर्फ महिलाओं को ही मिलती है 😜 

अक्षय तृतीया की आप सभी  और आपके सम्पूर्ण परिवार को हार्दिक शुभकामनाएं । 🙏🙏

Twitter The Modem Of Expression

Some people use Twitter to express their thoughts, while others use Twitter to find the flaws of good thinking. For this sometimes these people cross the limit and start making derogatory remarks just to humiliate others. Just because the other person has a different way of society, you will insult them by mistreating . While doing this, people do not even think that they are hurting someone mentally. 

Well this doesn't happen only on Twitter.

Twitter is simple in features – but Twitter Users are a diverse crowd. And often they misunderstand each other.

Misunderstandings lead to complaints, complaints lead to fights, and fights lead to more misunderstandings. Let me be your mediator and explain the different groups to you.

Types Of Valuable Twitter Users

1. The Listener

The Listener is a Twitter User, who follows (topics, people, friends or celebrities) – but doesn’t feel the need to be followed. That doesn’t mean he is worthless, though. Listeners are the accounts that are in the game for information, and whenever they find a piece of information they suck it up. They follow a few friends and a lot of accounts they feel give them the information they need – yet you shouldn’t expect interaction from them. The best you can hope for is a click on the Retweet button from time to time.

The value they bring

Listeners actually bring a lot of value to Twitter, though it often goes unnoticed. They are the ones who are most interested in the content that is provided. They suck up the information, and although it seems that all you get is a random retweet – in fact, you collect readers.

2. The Facebook Runaway

You meet them on every social network these days – yet on Twitter, they can be particularly annoying. The Facebook Runaways! They simply don’t get that Twitter is different and has a different social structure than Facebook. They are here because they “don’t want Facebook spying” on them, or “don’t believe in Facebook’s censorship”.

The problem is: They want to use Twitter like they have used or would use Facebook. They follow their friends and a few brands (those they would “like” on Facebook). They get annoyed when someone follows them 

The value they bring

As annoying as this type of Twitter users can be – be patient. These are intelligent people too (sometimes), and over time, they will convert to regular Twitter users. They will get comfortable with the way social interactions are made on Twitter, and while they are not willing to interact with _you_ at first, they are interacting with their friends and acquaintances. Twitter still needs growth – and once these people get comfortable with the regular chit-chat on Twitter, who knows, they might enjoy the openness.

3. The Interactor

Interactors are the complete opposite of the Listeners. They talk a lot on Twitter, send you questions, talk about random things (either business or even personal) with seemingly random people. They are here not to take part in conversations – they create conversations. They turn Twitter into the global party it is.

The value they bring

This is easy – they bring value because they are the spark for conversations that spread like wildfire. Without them Twitter would be a boring place, they make it fun. If you want to target on Twitter – these might not be the Twitter users who will constantly click on the content you post, but if they do and like it, you have engaged the ones that have the power to make you trending (if you are very lucky).

4. The Entertainer

This group is somewhat similar to the Interactors – but there is a difference: The Interactor interacts because he likes interacting, the entertainer needs an audience. And while the entertainer is also very keen to talk to you, he also is very keen to post content (and often even to create content).

If this sounds like the entertainer is an egocentric version of the Interactor, that is because he is.

The value they bring

Imagine a college party. There are people talking to each other, people who have talked to every single guest at the party. And then there is always, at least, one guy or girl everyone remembers: He/she talks slightly louder than everyone else, he cracks jokes, tells everyone stories of his life; if a girl gives him her number she knows she has only a 10% chance of ever getting a call.

Not everyone likes him, and everyone agrees that he is over the top and sometimes annoying. But although many wouldn’t admit it, without him, the party wouldn’t be a party at all.

5. The Seeder (Marketer Type A)

Seeders treat Twitter like an information stream, and (as marketers), they see their role as presenting themselves as sources for as much information as possible. Many of them tweet content as often as every 15 – 20 minutes, and while this may seem strange to newcomers – if they do it well you might not even notice.

Many from this group tweet primarily on autopilot – recurring queues of Tweets, heavy usage of Buffer. Often they measure their tweets and topics on how they perform within their audience and they almost definitely grow their audience actively.

The value they bring

Many people use Twitter as a stream of information – and this is who the Seeder is after. Information is king on Twitter and if you manage to implement yourself in the content stream with your sources of content (without becoming a spammer) – you are a winner.

Look at your Twitter stream: What would it be without the valuable information? A lot of this information is spread and passed on to other Twitter users by Marketers. Do you really mind (as long as the information is truly relevant)?

6. The Ambassador (Marketer Type B)

Ambassadors promote products they believe in. They build an audience that trusts them – and has good reason to trust them. Because they never promote things they don’t like or use themselves. Or if they do they say: This might be interesting, but I haven’t tried it yet.

These people might be Entertainers, Interactors or Seeders as well – yet when they promote a product you can be sure that they are convinced it is worth it

The value they bring

In a world where new products appear every day, Ambassadors are not only valuable; they are needed desperately – how else would you find the product you need?

7. The Newbie

New account, no profile picture, no idea of how to find his or her way around the network, sometimes scary behavior. Like a teenager on his first college party. Often imitating the behavior of others. You get the picture.

The value they bring

Just like the Facebook Runaways, these will hopefully “get it” in the future. They need our help and support and shouldn’t be seen as outsiders – don’t we all want Twitter to grow?

8. Inactive Accounts

A lot of people sign up for Twitter but often don’t stay active. These become inactive accounts – no tweet for weeks and month, no messages, no activity.

The value they bring

Believe it or not – many people don’t get Twitter from the start. But that doesn’t mean that they will never get it.

So stay calm and wait. While these might not provide value now, they also don’t do damage.

9. The Regular Twitter Users 

A lot of people just use Twitter without thinking about what they do. They are a bit of everything above. And that’s ok.

Isn’t it a bit harsh to call someone useless? Well, maybe but before you decide on your verdict about my behavior, read on and decide for yourself whether you have a better way to describe these Twitter user types.

10. The Spammer (Marketer Type C)

These are similar to Seeders in the way that they post often, and they try to induce their message into the stream of information – it’s just that their messages are useless. No real information, repetition to excess.

And since they don’t provide value, their messages simply don’t work – and since they do notice this they get even more annoying by mentioning random Twitter handles, trying to raise attention by insulting people.

And while a good marketer knows his audience and knows how to grow his audience by targeting the right people/accounts, these idiots simply don’t. They often have Twitter accounts with over 100k followers – which they probably bought for little money.

Value? None. Annoyment factor: 5/10

 

11. The Troll 

If Spammers are annoying, Trolls are sneaky little 🤬 that do real damage in the virtual world. All other types of Twitter users are actually reflections of social groups in the real world – Trolls are not.

They insult people (for no apparent reason or at least not legitimate reasons). They come up with surprisingly well-developed plans to create fights between certain groups, they bully people, they lie, they scheme, they hack accounts and use them for their purpose, …

These people often appear to be different in real life – sometimes even respectable, but in the anonymity of the social web, they show their real personalities.

These types hide in every society on the planet – sometimes they come out when a political system drifts into a dictatorship, racism or other unfavorable directions. They are not simply not nice people – they strive when you give them an audience, they become dangerous when you give them power, and they prosper when you give them the opportunity to believe they are better than others with their narcissistic belief system.

In reality, they are simply cowards striving for attention. Don’t give it to them.

Don’t feed the §$!§$” troll!